Most recent blog entries

Guest Post by app2us - "10 things to avoid during a US student visa interview"

Mon, 30 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

With permission of the webmaster of app2us, a wonderful site giving tips and advice on studying abroad in USA. This article gives tips on applying for visa to America for studies.

Tips in Overcoming Barriers to Learning Another Language

Fri, 27 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Are you trying to learn another language? Are you frustrated or overwhelmed? Especially when one lives in a foreign country others think fluency will come easily. That is not true for many of us; it was not true for me learning Tamil in India. I became frustrated many times. How did I overcome my frustrations? Click in to listen how!

India and America Interfaith and Secular Holiday Calendar September 2010

Wed, 25 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Muslims, Hindus and Jews share some holidays during September 2010.

Indian College Etiquette Tips: How to "Write Exams" For College-Level Classes

Mon, 23 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

As an American who had to re-learn everything when I "landed up" in Chennai, "writing exams" or taking tests was no different. I had to learn on my own how to be successful in a new culture by taking up new behaviors, including how to adjust my English to a new writing style with new vocabularly and how to choose and re-write the most popular "quotable quote" for pages on end, challening my American ideals of plagarism to get the 'top marks' and 'pass out' 'first class'.

These tips, written in story format relate to my experience in 1999-2001 at Madras Chistian College in Chennai, India. Maybe this college has new procedures now, I don't know. Also, not all colleges in India probably subscribe to this particular method. If you are going to study in India, you'll want to find out the particular study and test taking habits of your particular college before attempting to use this as a be-all end-all guide of test taking in India!

Challenges One May Face in Learning Another Language

Fri, 20 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Are you trying to learn another language? Are you getting frustrated? What are your frustrations and what strategies have you used to overcome your frustrations?

Click into learn what challenges I had in learning Tamil in India. I hope my experiences can help you! Click into listen to my podcasts.

Happy Independence Day, India!

Sat, 14 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Padmini Natarajan shares her poetic thoughts during India's 63rd Independence Day. Enjoy this thougtful and inspiring poem showcasing the beauty of India.

Thanks, Padmini.

Happy Independence All!!

Alaivani Newsletter: August 2010 -The BIG FIVE-O-O (500)!

Fri, 13 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

I appreciate you, all my fans, loyal and occasional readers for your encouragement. Without you, I know I would have stopped along time ago!

Today WE celebrate the 500th post on Alaivani.com since March 2007! I hope for 500 and countless more to come!

The Authentic Journey of Lisa: From India to U.S. - Fighting Stereotypes and Embracing Identity

Fri, 13 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Wonder what it's like to look Indian but feel American in India? I would guess it's a bit like being a fish out of water; as we say here in America. Reading Lisa's account, I can imagine it was. On the outside, Lisa blends in and looks 'like everyone else' because of her Indian heritage, but on the inside which starts to come out- everyone including her realizes something else is underneath it all. You have to click in to read her expeirences finding and fighting stereotypes and identity in India and also following once returning back to 'the States'.

Just enthralling. Thanks a million and a half Lisa for writing this and sharing it here on Alaivani.

The Authentic Journey of Lisa: India it is!

Wed, 11 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

What happens when a move around the world seems to happen overnight? Does it mean it's meant to be or does it mean something more, something greater, something mysterious and life-defining? Click in to read what happens to Lisa as her life's journey takes her what seems haphazardly to .... a place less familiar than expected!

The Authentic Journey of Lisa: The Struggles of Identifying with India While Growing up in America

Sun, 08 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Growing up in America has some perks. However, when one's parents don't identify themselves as American or 'act American' at home, this offers both gifts and challenges. Experience growing up in America while trying to balance an Indian and American identity through Lisa's eyes in this three part series that takes Lisa from America across the seven seas to .... India!

American English Idioms/Sayings: "Off-the-beaten-path" and backroads tourism!

Fri, 06 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Are you an adventerous person? Are you looking for unique or lesser-known places to explore and enjoy? Are you the type that prefer to avoid the large crowds of the normal touristy places to relax in a less crowded but scenic and serene place? Or maybe you want adventure and to visit a place that is a bit challenging to get to and even to enjoy once you reach? All this is possible when you travel on 'backroads' and 'off-the-beaten-path.' In this post, I share a podcast with you about the meanings of these idioms/saying and examples of places I have gone that are

An American's Acceptance and Practice of Daily Life in India (Video cast)

Wed, 04 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Many have asked me, "How have you, as an American, learned so much about India living there only two years?" I, of course, feel there is an endless amount more to learn, but ten years later, I realize after comparing my situation to others how I learned so much about daily life in India and wove it in to my own life while in India and back in 'the States'.

What were the factors that inspired my integration? Click in to listen to the video or read the transcripts. These tips can help you in integrating into any culture, not just in India. Enjoy and love to hear your comments.

Preparing to move abroad to study in another country

Mon, 02 Aug 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Wondering what some people think of or experience as they prepare to move abroad? Look inside for a video where I discuss some of the thoughts, feelings and experiences had by people as they prepare to move to another country.

American English Coaching Tips: How to Pronounce the letter "i" in words like "Bridge"

Fri, 30 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Click in to listen to a podcast with tips on how to form this sound with your mouth and words to use as examples to improve your American accent!

India and America Interfaith and Secular Holiday Calendar August 2010

Wed, 28 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Keep busy this month with Ramadan, Onam, Independance Day, Karkidaka Vavu, Parsi New Year, Varalakshmi Vratham, Avani Avittam and Rakhi.

Attending Varalakshmi Vratham Puja - Hindu Etiquette Tips

Mon, 26 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

August 20 is the 2010 date for Varalakshmi Vratham. This is a Hindu ritual that is observered by some communities in south India. I have attended this prayer celebration a few times in USA and wanted to share some of the observations including etiquette I witnessed and partook in during the festivities.

American English Idiom Podcast #4: Meaning and Origin of "Irons in the Fire"

Fri, 23 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

The idiom 'irons in the fire' is a positive saying in American casual conversation. Want to know more about the useage of this idiom and the origin?

Monday Memories

Mon, 19 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Flashback 2003! Read some interesting contributions to my website from people redefining themselves as Hindus and Indians.

American English Idiom Podcast #3: Idioms that mean 'Get out of here'

Fri, 16 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

These idioms are commonly used in American movies, dramas, westerns and possibly newscasts. Rarely are these sayings used in everyday talk unless talking about someone else outside your social circle- I hope! Enjoy listening to this week's American English idiom podcast.

Barbara's Top 20 List of Interesting Things Found in Italy

Wed, 14 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Barbara who shared her authentic journey from America to Italy with us here in the previous post, today shares twenty interesting aspects of life in Italy.

The Authentic Journey of Barbara: An American in Italy

Mon, 12 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

I have known “Barbara” a few years in person and now virtually after she left U.S. and has been living in Italy the past year or so. It has been interesting to experience Italy through her eyes, and here through her writings. Thanks for taking time to share about your life with us, Barbara.

Photo, right: "Tuscany's Vineyards" by rayced @flickr

Alaivani Newsletter July 2010

Sat, 10 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Look inside for cross-cultural tips on living a cross-cultural India-American inspired life, podcasts for American English learners, Sari Etiquette and American cultural tips, and some information about what I do and why I do it! Enjoy!

American English Idiom Podcast #2: What is 'from scratch''?

Fri, 02 Jul 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Have you ever heard someone say, "Oh that tasted so good because it was made 'from scratch?' This idiom or phrase 'from scratch' is quite common in American English. Open the post, listen to the podcast and enhance your ESL/ESOL American English studies today!

American English Idiom Podcast #1: What is a 'laundry list'?

Fri, 25 Jun 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Have you heard someone say 'laundry list'? What is your thoughts on this idiom? What does it mean? Listen to my pod cast to hear my thoughts on this idiom and examples of how to use it.

India and America Interfaith and Secular Holiday Calendar - July 2010

Wed, 23 Jun 2010 05:00:00 GMT

When is Tisha B'av in 2010? When does Ramayana Masam start in 2010? When will Muslims celebrate Lailat al Miraj in 2010? Click in and see the calendar.

Pruning – and its Relevance to Gardening, Personal Development and Life Coaching

Wed, 16 Jun 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Learning to rid of unwanted tangible and intangible things in our life helps us develop ourselves and evolve. I share how I believe the process of ridding, or pruning, of our unwanted traits is a lot like pruning a garden; improving it's appearance, health and beauty.

Transcripts of the video are available for purchase, especially for English learners (ESL, ESOL). Thank you!

Shiva's Arms:the reach of a novel

Tue, 15 Jun 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Friends!! I want to Introduce you to Cheryl Snell, Author of "Shiva's Arms", did you know Cheryl and I have something in common- both married to Indians and at that a Malayalee? ;-) Her novel on cross-cultural family life and the push-pull of cultural adjustment is a must-read for anyone who likes the topic and specifically for the dynamics of India and America and extended families. Visit my Authentic Journeys Facebook page next Tuesday June 15 to interact in real time with Cheryl Snell on her blog tour, starting here! Thanks Cheryl and Shana for having me go first, what an hono

Alaivani Newsletter: June 2010

Fri, 11 Jun 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Ready for a new format to the newsletter? Click inside to see the new format and much more!

Meet Margarita Gokun Silver, cross-cultural mentor, access to free cross-cultural trainings, and look for the live interaction experience you can have with author of cross-cultural novels, Cheryl Snell!

The Authentic Journey of Margarita Gokun Silver: Musings of Multi and Cross-Cultural Life, Sharing and Mentoring from Russia and Beyond

jennifer@alaivani.com — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Meet Margarita Gokun Silver. She's a life/executive coach specializing in expatriate and cross-cultural coaching through the Global Coach Center and a fan of Authentic Journeys Fan Page on

Temptations from the Tamil Table: Review of Viji Varadarajan’s Samayal South Indian Cookbook

Mon, 31 May 2010 05:00:00 GMT

With over 120 vegetarian recipes, I am sure you won't know where to start! Each and every recipe would remind someone who grew up eating this cuisine "of home", and does surely take me back to my days living in India. This cook book is now a staple in my kitchen, I refer it to for many recipes and even ideas on how to adjust recipes and be creative in the kitchen! Thank you, Viji.

Create Your Own Indian Inspired Kitchen in America

Mon, 24 May 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Are you a recently settled desi in America? Maybe you're an American looking to cook Indian food in your home, but wonder what, if any special utensils are required. Maybe you want to make something special like idli or dosa and wonder if there are American utensils to do the job? I have compiled this tutorial along with a list of items - utensils, pots, pans, spices, and other requirements that I have used here in America to prepare Indian meals. Maybe this will be helpful to you or your friends too!

Alaivani Newsletter: May 2010

Fri, 14 May 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Thank you to Jon Herrin, The Indians Abroad, Radhika Vasanth, Roopashri, my inspirational proteges and students and YOU the readers for all the inspiration and sharing of different cultures, languages and lifestyles representing India, America, Mexico, and more on this month's Alaivani newsletter!

The Authentic Journey of Cuisine: Radhika's Love for Cooking, Food and Cross-Cultural Living

jennifer@alaivani.com — Mon, 10 May 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Meet Radhika Vasanth, food blogger at Food for 7 Stages of Life a member of Authentic Journeys

Fri, 07 May 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Experiencing cultures 'away from home', creating new cultures right at home and pathways to more comfortable lives in tunes with our true selves, no matter where in the world we live are the themes of this month's favorite blog posts by people on at least four different continents!

Krishna's Klicks May 2010

Wed, 05 May 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Krishna's photos are getting more and more visability by friends, family and the..... WORLD! This month we found his entry to a photo contest published in Outdoor Photographer Magazine! Click into see that and much, much more!!

English as Second Language Lesson- Nursery Rhymes in American English

Mon, 03 May 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Parenting and socializing your child in America is a challenge for all parents, but for parents who come to America from different countries there are additional challenges such as learning American culture, American English and the American regional accent of your place of residence. One of the ways a parent can participate with their toddler in a pre-school, day-care, or mothers group is to sing nursery rhymes. I have created a lesson for the popular nursery rhyme 'Row Row Row your boat.'

Hope it is useful. Let me know if you have another song in mind. I am happy to add your suggestions!

India and America Interfaith and Secular Holiday Calendar - May and June 2010

Wed, 28 Apr 2010 05:00:00 GMT

May and June are combined because there are so few holidays in June! Have fun in May and June!

A Rare Manuscript on the Tamil Brahmin Cooking

Mon, 26 Apr 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Do you love Indian food? Do you want to venture out of the typical restaurant food found in Indian eateries in America? Though there are south Indian eateries in America, you will be sure to find more than a few hidden gems in the specialized regional ethnic cuisine from the community of Tamil Brahmins in South India who base their diet on dairy, lentils and vegetables with a hearty dose of flavorful spices. Take a peek inside, read the review and be inspired to support Viji by purchasing her book to learn more about the recipes, cookery techniques, cultural tips related to food, and tips on how to buy, store and prepare unique ethnic vegetables found in this cuisine.

Tips on Giving Indian Cooking Class and Tidbits about India's Food Cultures....

Mon, 19 Apr 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Last year, I watched a documentary of Rachel Ray. Interesting that she lived in New York State, too, but more so was learning from her experience! She shared the trials, tribulations, joys and wonders of organizing her first cookery programs on TV, which are in fact, cooking classes. I learned a lot from her. Influenced by her documentary, I decided to make a video of my experience preparing to teach an Indian cooking class in Rochester, New York recently.

Enjoy and Bon Apetit!

Flavours from a South India Kitchen

Wed, 14 Apr 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Celebrate Tamil New Year in 2010 on a 'flavourful' note! Check out Srivalli's Indian cookery blog and e-book. I created an audio review on her offerings. Take five minutes, enjoy a sip of chai, listen along and hop on over to her blog!

Thank you Srivalli for sharing your timeless wisdom and boundless enthusiasm with us!

Krishna's Klicks March 2010: Past and Present

Wed, 07 Apr 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Have you wondered how to make idli without the traditional Indian idli stands and pressure cooker? This post will answer that and also showcases plenty of photos from the recent past and long-lost past, and recent short trips, Krishna's photos from this month highlight one really old family photo, plus photos from our road trip last year and recent road trips in US.

Experiments in Alternative Health Care

Mon, 05 Apr 2010 05:00:00 GMT

With rising cost of 'mainstream' health care, people all over are looking for 'alternative' healing modalities that will not only provide a cheaper alternative, but a more holistic and comprehensive care. Since the late 90s I been participating in Ayurveda, native healing from India, and have dabbled in other modalities such as massage, reiki, eye care, and more. Click in to read some of my experiences from past articles posted here on Alaivani.

Blog Bling April 2010

Fri, 02 Apr 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Reflections on culture shock in India and China, lessons from nature and work and business life are highlights this month.

Thanks Delhi Bound, Tai Tai Johnson, Brijesh, Marie Brice, Copyblogger, and Digital Inspiraiton for this month's words of wisdom.

Ellu Bella - Sweet Exchange to Celebrate Sankranti Habba in Karnataka

Mon, 29 Mar 2010 05:00:00 GMT

A very unique celebration in Southern India that highlights the changing movements of the sun, and during which some read their good fortunes for the next year. In this post, Roopashri shares how she passes down the tradition of Ellu Bella to her daughter across the seven seas in America. Very intriguing! Thanks for shairng this, Roopashri.

Auspicious Dates to Bless Your House Under Hindu Traditions for Calendar Year 2010

Fri, 26 Mar 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Are you buying and moving into a new house in 2010? Are you thinking of arranging a Hindu Housewarming or Griha Pravesh Puja for your home? This post will share some general dates for house blessings for 2010 along with other relevant information.

Make Every Person Count: Census 2010

Fri, 26 Mar 2010 05:00:00 GMT

I am inspired to share a little about the 2010 USA Census from the Indian Abroad Website. Used with permission.

India and America Interfaith and Secular Holiday Calendar April 2010

Wed, 24 Mar 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Easter, Tamil New Year, Passover, Vishu and much more to keep us busy and creating new holiday traditions in April 2010!

Want to see Yogurt from a Different Perspective?

Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Yogurt is a main ingredient in a whole host of dishes in the Tamil, South Indian vegetarian cuisine. It's rare to find a plain, unspiced, unflavored yogurt in this wonderfully diverse cuisine!

Want to see yogurt from a different Parents who come to America may learn English from their children! But, children desire interaction and role-modeling from their parents. In this post, I offer an audio recording of a children's book that can inspire you to also read books to your children in English, even if English is not your first (or second, or third, or fourth) language!

--Even if you do not have this book, don't worry, there are other ways you can use this exercise to help you learn American English- click in to see more!

Life Outside U.S.A.: Appreciating Diverse Lifestyles in South America

Mon, 15 Mar 2010 05:00:00 GMT

An American's journey from the South of U.S.A to the South Americas is an intriguing story of cross-cultural lifestyles and learning about the world!

Click in to read the story of Jon Herrin's journey from America to Mexico!

Thank you, Jon for sharing your story with us!

Alaivani Newsletter March 2010

Fri, 12 Mar 2010 05:00:00 GMT

This past month saw a blizzard both literally and figuratively in relation to weather and ideas! Check out what's been going on in Alaivani in the past month!

Thank you for spending time on Alaivani.com.

Easy-to-Use Handbook for American College Admissions for Indians

Wed, 10 Mar 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Helping prospective students and parents thinking or preparing for a move abroad to America for studies is daunting for any family. This handbook covers college admissions and college life in America comprehensively. This handbook doubles as not only an 'admissions manual' but a coaching

Krishna's Klicks for February

Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Not left out, we in Rochester, New York also had our own share of snow. Maybe not as much as places like Washington D.C. and others, but enough for us this year, thank you very much.

The photos taken by Krishna taken the last month showcase some of this frozen, white splendor- that now make me long so much for the warmer days hopefully soon on the horizon.

Flashback Friday: Pennsylvania Pursuits

Fri, 26 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

In the midst of winter, and today being a snow 'storm' in my town, many think of the warmer days. Today I am thinking of our wonderful tirps to Pennsylvania: riding bikes on Pine Creek, stargazing with our friends, camping by the rambling brooks, riding on amazing, restored trains, exploring 'rim rocks' and dams surrounded by wonderful, mysterious and magical hills. All such activities done in the summer. Amazing that in summer, not many dream of winter-ludes, huh?

Let's dream of a few summer-ludes and enjoy some videos and snaps from warmer days to come again.

Photo, right:

India and America Interfaith and Secular Holiday Calendar March 2010

Wed, 24 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Holi, Ugadi, St. Patrick's Day, Ramanavami, Passover and more are celebrated this month. Click in to see more!

Holi in a Different Hue: Exploring Connections to Holi in Kerala

Mon, 22 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Waching Kerala news on Kairali TV in America a few years ago during Holi season, I saw a news piece that attracted my attention. The celebrations looked kind of like a Holi celebration, but it couldn't be as Holi is not really famously celebrated in South India, in Kerala. After some research and translations of the Malayalam newscast, I formed some opinions of my own on the connection between this mysterious regional Kerala holiday, Porramkuli, and North Indian Holi.

Intersted to know your thoughts or experiences regarding these festivals.

Thank you for spending your time on my blog!

Culture Shock vs. Natural...Life...Changes

Fri, 19 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

So many of us become 'foreigners' or 'expats', 'international students' or 'global citizens'. Most of us, regardless of country of origin know someone who has lived in or is living in 'a foreign country'. There is obvious life changes that one experiences while moving abroad or even to another city- but don't we experience life transitions and even, culture shock, through role transitions as we journey through our everyday life- even if we never move?

I share some of my thoughts on this in a 4 minute podcast slideshow.

Insider Insight To "Being Indian"

Wed, 17 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

"Being Indian" means different things to different people- while there are, of course, certain criteria that many Indians may agree upon that identify one as being from India, being Indian or 'desi.'

Though I am not 'desi' by birth, I lived in Chennai for two years some years ago, with the intent that I would integrate what I could of the culture into my life even after returning to US. In this post, I share two audio diaries on cross-cultural integration and some feedback I have received from others.

I am eager to hear your cross cultural experiences!

Cultural Tip: Going Out To Lunch with American Coworkers

Mon, 15 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Are you new to navigating American cultural etiquette? Are you facing culture shock moving to the US, or moving back to the US? Maybe you just started a job and wanted to know how to respond when your coworkers ask you to lunch. Rather than sit in your cube and wonder what to do, and eat alone, join in next time with these helpful tips! (audio and video presentation inside)

Alaivani Newsletter February 2010

Fri, 12 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Thank you to Srivalli, My Facebook Friends, Indians Abroad, and Indian Student Association (OASIS) at Rochester Institute of Technology for the inspiration on some of the posts this month!

American Party Invitation Etiquette

Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Have you received an invitation to a party given by your American friends but aren't sure if you can make it? Wondering how to handle the invitation?

Listen to a few tips on managing invitation from your American friends to build trusting friendships with your cross-cultural friends.

Photo left: Sarah Parrott @flickr (creative commons)

Blog Bling February 2010

Fri, 05 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Thank you this month to Clark, Culture Transition Coaching, Expatriate and Cross-Cultural Success (Global Coach Center), Hindu Blog, India Abroad, Naomi, neoindian.org, Remarkablogger Business Blog Coaching & Consulting, Sharell, Shyama, and Srivalli Jetti of Cooking 4 all Seasons for inspiring the wonderful collection of information I am sharing this month.

Cultural Tip- Sorting through Postal Mail in America

Thu, 04 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Junk and spam mail is not only an e-phenomenon! It is also a physical phenomenon! It invades our mailboxes, in our homes daily in America!

In this five-minute audio tip, I share a few tips on 'junk postal mail'- what can be useful, and what to avoid.

Photo, right by Oran Viriyincy, used under creative commons.

2009 Memories and Flashbacks by Krishna

Wed, 03 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Krishna has been working on uploading select, inspiring images from our travels together in the past few years across America and to India. Click into see some of the awesome and inspirational images.

Teach us about your Culture!

Mon, 01 Feb 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Is there something that you would like others to know about your culture? Is there something that is little-known, or maybe it's a myth or stereotype? Have you experienced different cultures and want to share your experiences?

I have compiled a comprehensive list of questions that you can choose from to get your memories refreshed! I hope to learn about you and your culture to share with the world here on Alaivani- to increase understanding and break down barriers of misundertanding among us! Thank you for your consideration and participation!

Feeling at Home in a New Country or Culture

Fri, 29 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Have you lived in a different city or country than where you were born and raised for a few months, a few years, a few decades? Do you know anyone else who has... and still feels homesick? I share some thoughts on why I think this occurs. I am happy to hear your thoughts, experiences and feedback!

Come To My House to Chill Out!

Thu, 28 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

People in tropical or arid and sweltering hot climates may desire to experience and even live in climates where snow falls. Sometimes what we dream snow is, is not what we think it is!

India and America Interfaith and Secular Holiday Calendar February 2010

Wed, 27 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

All spiritual faiths highlighted in my calendar celebrate a holy-day this month! Click in to see more!

Adjusting to Different Cultures and Lifestyles Made Easy - Three Techniques You Can Use Today to Encourage Success in Life Transitions!

Tue, 26 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Moving across the country or around the globe for work opportunities, educational enrichment or family commitments is common-place now-a-days. We not only encounter lifestyle and cultural transitions by moving- we can encounter them in our own homes through changing jobs, changing family relationships, retirement, marriage, divorce and many other types of transitions. Here, I recap in a slide show video three techniques you can use on-your-own to create success and ease in lifestyle changes.

Culture Shock Breakthroughs: Adapting New Habits to Create Success

Mon, 25 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

When transitioning to a new lifestyle, be it in your own country, your own town, or around the world, new habits may be required to feel successful and comfortable. Refer to the three tier technique as narrated through my culture adjustment in India to help make habits unconscious to increase success and ease.

Learning about World Cultures .... Compliments .... YOU!

Sat, 23 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Your culture is mesmerising. What do you find most interesting about your culture? Is there something you would like the world to know about your culture that is misunderstood?

I am starting a series of interviews to help encourage cross-cultural sharing and understanding! I hope you would like to participate! Tune in for more info....

Alleviating Culture Shock By Taking Inventory of Your Life!

Fri, 22 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

By taking inventory of your strengths and challenges we can help you be successful in all areas of your life while facing transitions in life.

See all 5 parts of this Free Culture Shock/ Culture Adjustment Tips Training Here!

Experience Inspiring Cross-Cultural Relationships

Thu, 21 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

There are many resources to learn and understand why people do and behave how they do- the best sourse is the insider source! Find a mentor of someone in the group you want to relate to! If not, then bounce ideas off a mentor, life coach like me! Slideshow video inside.

Fall In Love with Your Global Lifestyle

Wed, 20 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Moving to a different city or country? Wondering how you will adjust to a new lifestyle and culture? Do you enjoy learning and integrating new ways of expressing life? I have created a five part video training series that explores tips and techniques you can use today to help with culture shock, lifestyle adjustment and fitting in as a newcomer!

Sankranti: A Karnataka Perspective

Thu, 14 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Sankranti is a holiday celebrated in many parts of India under different names with variations on ritual, reason and revelry. Click in to experience this festival as celebrated by some in Karnataka, a central south Indian state.

Submitted by an anonymous Kannidiga friend. Thank you.

FAQ – Questions about Pongal the South Indian Thanksgiving Harvest Festival

Tue, 12 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Thanksgiving harvest is a mid January tradition in Tamil Nadu, South India. Wonder what are the special traits of this holiday, how it is observed and what to do if you're invited to one's home for this auspicious occasion? Click in to read more.

Photo right: Woman making kolam, design on ground with rice flour, in Tamil village for Pongal 2000.

Purchase Pongal Greeting Cards!

American English Accent Reduction for Native Japanese Speakers

Sun, 10 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Many people come to America from Japan every year- and know how to speak English quite well. But, many Japanese may loose confidence in their English skills because Americans may not understand their Japanese-English accents. I have found a series of videos that are helpful in adjusting one's accent and rhythm to American English speakers.

Desi Professors in US – Some Random Thoughts

Sat, 09 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Are you an Indian (desi) planning to come study in America for your graduate studies? Are you more enthusiastic to join your program if your advisor is desi? Consider the advantages and disadvantages of this choice as expressed by Brijesh in this article. Do share your insight, thoughts, and experiences here or on Brijesh's site.

Alaivani Newsletter January 2010

Fri, 08 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Mysterious Laws of Attraction – Barriers to Indian-American Friendship and Relationship Building

Thu, 07 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Can Indians and Americans be attracted to each other for life-long friendships or serious maritial relationships? What do we have in common? Where do we differ that may prevent attraction, relatability or understanding? I explore some of my thoughts on this topic in a video blog.

Cross-Cultural Mentoring Opportunity

Wed, 06 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Moving around the world or across the country can offer opportunities of self-growth and self-exploration. Some moves require us to adapt to totally new surroundings- behaviorally, mentally, and emotionally. Sometimes when we are adapting to a new area, having a mentor help us through the changes can be encouraging.

Video Diary - Welcome 2010

Tue, 05 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Face-to-face, I share with you through a video thoughts and directions for 2010 and Alaivani.com.

Captivating, Mystical, Mysterious Kanchipuram

Mon, 04 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Vaikunta Perumal temple leaves images of wonder in our minds and hearts- and is part of Outdoor Magazine's photo contest. Click in to read more!

Outdoor Photographer - Mystical Adventures Gallery - Vote until January 15, 2010

Blog Bling January 2010

Fri, 01 Jan 2010 05:00:00 GMT

Expats in India, cross-cultural self-development, exploration of misconceptions and stereotypes, and much more in this month's blog articles review!

Images of our Lives in 2009

Thu, 31 Dec 2009 05:00:00 GMT

This year, we have seen and experienced many things in America and India! Click inside to see some photos and videos of our travels.

2009 - A Year Dedicated to YOU - Readers and Contributors!!

Wed, 30 Dec 2009 05:00:00 GMT

This year with a growing list of 40 creative contributors; sharing their world and experience through words and photography, this post is dedicated to you! I appreciate the time and interest in my website- contributors and readers alike!

India and America Interfaith and Secular Holiday Calendar January 2010

Mon, 28 Dec 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Welcome 2010! See which holidays and holy-days are celebrated in January 2010! Click inside for the interfaith and multifaith calendar.

Celebrating India and America - 12 Months of 2010

Tue, 22 Dec 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Straddling two cultures can be difficult, especially when raising children abroad or being a member of a cross-cultural and interfaith marriage. For those looking for a way to inspire cross-cultural sharing, I have created a unique India-America Cross-Cultural Interfaith and Secular Calendar. Click in to see more!

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American English and Cultural Lessons

Mon, 21 Dec 2009 05:00:00 GMT

English skills help when

Friends Tribute to George Thaliath

Wed, 09 Dec 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Today I am continuing a tribute to George Thaliath from friends. Ashish, a contributor to George's weekly Monday Mail e-newsletter shares his memories and thoughts of George.

Tribute to George Thaliath

Mon, 07 Dec 2009 05:00:00 GMT

A tribute to a life well lived of a family friend, George Thaliath of Kochi is highlighted this week on Alaivani.

We all send healing thoughts and well-wishes to his family and all friends and well-wishers at this time.

Blog Bling December 2009

Fri, 04 Dec 2009 05:00:00 GMT

New online friends, Westerners married to South Asians living exciting lives in India and Pakistan highlight this month's interesting blog posts shared with Alaivani community.

The overriding theme this month is intercultural sharing and cultural adjustment concerns. Click in to read more!!

Vegetarianism: Non-violence as Daily Practice

Wed, 02 Dec 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Indian and Hindu social and spiritual guides such as the Thirukkural, Manusmriti, Mahabharata as well as respected spiritual leaders such as Swami Dayananda Saraswathi (Arsha Vidya Gurukulam), are quoted in this article that explores the spiritual side of vegetarianism.

Kartikai Deepam Reason – Why do we observe Karthigai Deepam?

Mon, 30 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Tomorrow, December 1, 2009 is Karthigai Deepam, 'the festival of lights'. These lights, one can say, are burning as thousands of 'birthday candles' to celebrate the birthday of Lord Murugan, the brother of Lord Ganesh.

Guest blogger, Abhilash has graciously donated this article from his blog to be shared among readers here at Alaivani. Learn about a few reasons, legends, stories and myths of Karthigai Deepam. Fascinating stuff! Thanks, Abhilash.

Myth Busters: Myths of India (2001)

Wed, 25 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

After living in India for two years as a typical graduate student at Madras Christian College, some of my close friends and family wanted to know what I learned about India. They had a lot of questions, some were good questions based on studying and knowning other Indian friends, but others were based on myths. This list of myths was created in 2001 from statements and questions people asked me when I returned to USA from India.

Breaking Down Cultural Borders: Share Thoughts on Myths of Indian and American Culture

Mon, 23 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Myths, misconceptions and misinformation about others often leads to misunderstandings and complications in relationships. Stereotypes and myths help us to make sense out of things we can not comprehend, things that are bigger than us. However, stereotypes and myths often lead to building of walls and ignorance of who the other person really is. I want to educate others about the myths, stereotypes and erronous beliefs people have about American culture and Indian culture. If you have any thoughts on these topics, please click in and fill in the form with your thoughts. It is confidential.

However, if you feel more comfortable to e-mail me, please do - jenkumar@gmail.com.

Topics and Subject Areas for Articles on Alaivani.com

jennifer@alaivani.com — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

This week I sorted through over 400 posts on Alaivani to purge and rearrange them into appropriate categories, topics and subjects. Browse the topic list within for any articles of your interest!

Thank you for spending your time on Alaivani.com!

India and American holidays December 2009 Calendar

Wed, 18 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

December is a time of celebrations for many. Of course Christmas is one of the most celebrated festivals in the world.

However, did you know that in December, Hindus in Tamil Nadu celebrate Karthikai Deepam (a festival of lights), Jews celebrate Hannakah, Muslims celebrate Al Hijra and African Americans celebrate Kwanzaa? Everyone has something to celebrate in December!

Right: Christmas rangoli I made of homemade cookies, Diwali Diyas and inspiration.

Happy Holidays!

My Updated Social Networks

Mon, 16 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Want to follow me in different social networks from Facebook to Yahoo?

I updated my social networks list today. Check it out! Thanks.

Alaivani Newsletter November 2009

Fri, 13 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Learning about cultural integration from different perspectives on my site and through intriguing discussions on Facebook have characterized the last one month.

Click in to see what else was in store the last one month!

Thank you!

Tulasi Puja – Utthaana Dvaadashi

Wed, 11 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Tulasi is a holy plant in many parts of India. In this annual ritual, the Tulasi plant is worshipped for the goddess among the many communities in India, including the Kannadigas - or those who lives in Karnataka state- in South Central India.

One of my 'Facebook Friends' has donated this article and few photos, and remains to wish anonymous. Thank you to my Facebook friend, you have really taught me something in a thorough way!

Tulasi plant photo, right submitted by Anonymous Facebook friend.

Malayalam Studies in India, USA and Internationally

Mon, 09 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Are you a Malayalee parent raising your child abroad? Finding it hard to encourage your child to learn Malayalam? Are you loosing touch with your mother tongue?

Are you a non-Malayalee or non-Indian married to a Malayalee and want to learn Malayalam for communicating with your spouse and in-laws?

I am making an attempt to collect some resources you can tap into to maintain a link with your native culture and language or to inspire you to learn about new cultures and languages.

Photo right: by acdme@ flickr used under creative commons. Click on the photo to see the entire photo- it's quite interesting!

Enjoy!!

Blog Bling November 2009

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Sometimes we are inspired most when we are away from our 'comfort zone' and in places we find exotically beautiful.

Expressing oneself through introspection in nature, cultural celebrations and everyday life events in another country, or in learning to slow yourself down and appreciate a simpler life are all topics discussed in this month's blog posts that have inspired me. Click in to read expressions of Indian culture in America, American lifestyle adjustments in Italy, Introspection in the exotic beauty of Utah, and other amazing insights that inspire and motivate!

Colorful Images of Our Life by Krishna Kumar

Mon, 02 Nov 2009 05:00:00 GMT

My husband has been engulfed in work for more than 12 hours somedays. Despite this, he has managed to post over 100 shots to his flickr account this past month: Utah Road Trip (still more to come...), India trip 2009 (still more to come), Syracuse Nationals Car Show 2009, Navarathri Golu 2009 and shots of my own handmade soaps among other amazing shots.

Image, right: entry to Ekambareswara temple, Kanchipuram. Read more about Ekambareswara here.

Click in to see intriguing and impressive images.

Inspirational Bloggers: NRI Maami's Expression of Indian Culture in America

Fri, 23 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Trying myself to recreate the culture I experienced in Tamil Nadu, India that holds a soft spot in my heart, I continue to look for Tamil bloggers based in America for inspiration on creating the mood, spirit and physical-look of India and Hindu culture here in America. In that search, I have found and been overwhelmingly influenced by NRI Maami.

With her permission, I have created a wonderful photo story of her expressions of Indian and Tamil culture here in America- including celebrations of Navarathri (including tutorial on how to create golu steps), Diwali, Avan Avittam, Ganesh Chathurthi, Krishna Jayanthi and others. Thank you for sharing your experiences with the world, NRI Maami.

We have a lot to learn about creating and recreating a life of passion and interest from you!

India and American holidays November 2009 Calendar

Wed, 21 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

November, unlike October, is a little less chaotic for many of us when it comes to secular and spiritual holidays.

Indians and Americans look forward to celebrating or observing Kerala Day, Daylight savings time, Guru Nanak's birthday, Veteran's Day, Children's Day, Thanksgiving, and Eid-Al-Adha.

Click in to see the calendar details.

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Diwali Greetings 2009

Sat, 17 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Click into read more about Diwali.

Diwali from a Kerala Perspective

Fri, 16 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Diwali is a holiday celebrated by one and all in and throughout India. However, it is not so grand, and even absent in some places in the southwestern state of Kerala.

Joby George, of Ente Keralam, shares his thoughts on Diwali in Kerala- Diwali as a Harvest Festival.

Thank you for sharing, Joby.

President Obama and the White House wish Happy Diwali

Thu, 15 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

This is a new dawn of cross cultural and interfaith understanding! What a wonderful message!

Baree in Mauritius

Wed, 14 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Today I introduce you to Baree from Mauritius. This is a much belated introduction to a browser to my site for the past five plus years who has contributed a few articles and many photos on Hindu festivals in Mauritius.

Alaivani Newsletter October 2009

Fri, 09 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Want to experience some of the sights and sounds of our 5,300 mile cross country road trip? Links to the videos and the video playlist is embedded with in!

Of course, as usual, links to the previous months Alaivani posts are also detailed within. Enjoy!

Diwali is October 17, 2009

Wed, 07 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Diwali is one of the most widely celebrated festivals and holidays in India spanning in some places up to five days. Though Diwali has many connections to Hinduism, Diwali is a secular holiday. People of all faiths and backgrounds can celebrate Diwali- as it is the 'festival of lights' celebrating good overcoming evil; a universal theme. Diwali is also one of the most widely known Indian holidays outside India. In this post, you can browse some links on Diwali on my website, including 'The Story of Diwali,' how to celebrate Diwali like a local (Tamilian) and an interesting connection between Diwali and Onam, another South Indian secular holiday.

Video Diary - 2009 Ganesh Chathurthi Celebrations span 2,300 Miles

Mon, 05 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Often God only knows (GOK) what will happen: when, where and how. The beauty of life is in the journey, destinations sometimes are determined only by the journey alone. This is indeed the case with this year's Ganesh Chathurthi Celebrations.

Click in to view videos and photos of our celebrations that took us three-quarters across the continental US to relieve Ganesh of his earthly visit with us this year.

Inspirational Ganapathi Idols by Roopashri and her Friends

Fri, 02 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Lord Ganesh inspires the creative artist within us during Ganesh Chathurthi. This year, I wanted to make a different kind of handmade murthi (idol) and while doing some internet research, found a wonderful collection of handmade Ganeshas on a blog authored by Roopashri. With her and her friend's permission, this post of inspirational handmade Ganesh murthis is possible.

Thank you. Hope all browsers enjoy and are equally inspired!

Blog Bling October 2009

Fri, 02 Oct 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Cultures of Kenya, India, and self-development inspired me to click in and experience more from Africa Expat's Wives Club, Jonathan Morrow, Pavithra, Kamala and Maami.

Though quantity of posts to share has decreased, the quality has increased!! Thank you for sharing, bloggers!

Through the eyes of Krishna Kumar

Wed, 30 Sep 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Travelling through 11 American states was a highlight of our family photo album in the last month. Peek inside to see a portion of the photos of this trip along with other adventures from our summer escapades to these 11 states and a few others on the other side of the earth, in India!

Thank you!

Navaratri: Then and Now

Mon, 28 Sep 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Padmini shares sweet memories of her navarathri and kolu celebrations over the years. She has summed up nicely all parts of the celebration from brining out hidden treasures from the attic, how the kolu padi (steps for dolls) was created and the festivities.

Thank you for sharing, Padmini.

Vidhyarmbam: Conclusion of Navarathri in Kerala

Mon, 28 Sep 2009 05:00:00 GMT

After a day of resting eduational and utility items, Vidyarmbam initiates these items back into proper use. The ritual of Ezhuthiniruthu on this day intiates the youngest into the world of letters, reading, and studies.

Submitted by guest blogger Saju at traveltokerala.blogspot.com.

India and American holidays October 2009 Calendar

Wed, 23 Sep 2009 05:00:00 GMT

View the social and spiritual calendars for India and America for October 2009. Holidays to look forward to include Gandhi Jayanthi, Sukkot, Maharishi Valmiki's birthday, Columbus Day, Diwali, Skanda Shashti and Halloween.

Happy Holidays!

Virtual Golu - Videos of Dolls Display for Navarathri

Wed, 16 Sep 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Golu is one of my favorite Tamil Navarathri traditions that I have been doing in my home since 2002. Something fascinates me about Golu and compells me to do it every year.

I like to see images of others golus to get inspiration and ideas. In this post, I will share a few YouTube videos of others Golu displays that have left an impression on me.

Alaivani Newsletter September 2009

Tue, 15 Sep 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Summertime Photos....

Wed, 09 Sep 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Because Onam happened last week, I am combining the photo displays of Krishna and I into this one post!

Click in to see photos and videos of our escapades to Pennsylvania (Stargazing, Lyman Run State Park, Grand Canyon Park, Tioga Central Railroad, Wellsboro), celebrations of Ganesh Chathurthi at home, UK Car day in Rochester, NY and more!! Enjoy!!

Blog Bling September 2009

Fri, 04 Sep 2009 05:00:00 GMT

This month, I have enjoyed reading culturally and spiritually inspiring posts by Aarathi, Mariellen @ Breathe Dream Go, Sharon Wilson @ Coaching from Spirit Challenge, DragonArtz, Jana @ Hijab Style, Abhilash @ Hindu Blog, Hindu Education Plus, Akshay @ I'd Rather Burn Out than Fade Away, Maddy, Cath @ Mine Your Resources, Pareltank, Brijesh @ Scaling New Heights, Leo @ Zen Habits.

Thank you for sharing your creativity with the world!

Reading Malayalam is Easy! Reading and Wishing Happy Onam in Malayalam - Video Tutorial

Wed, 02 Sep 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Kerala is the southwestern state in India where people speak Malayalam and celebrate Onam.

Do you want to know how to say Onam wishes in Malayalam? Do you want to know how to read and write Onam greetings in Malayalam?

Malayalam is a big puzzle- let's take apart and put back together some letters and words in Malayalam!!

Click inside to see the tutorial!

Onam Ashamsakal - Happy Onam to One and All

Wed, 02 Sep 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Click in to see photo slide show of Onam celebrations over the past three years in Rochester, NY, at our home and among our friends in our local Malayalee association- where we enjoyed a public sadhya (meal) and cultural programs (film song dances, singing, thiruvathira folk dancing, skits, and more)!

International Students Orientation at Columbia University (Videos)

Fri, 28 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

These series of videos, from YouTube are entertaining, engaging and give an overview to international students on the topics of culture shock, cultural adjustment, socializing and adjusitng to college life in America.

Photo Contributors to Alaivani

Mon, 24 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Over the years, images have really added value and given a visual representation of cultural expressions on Alaivani. Many photos you see are not taken by me, but by an ever growing list of contributors to my site. Currently, there are about 20 contributors to this blog!

Jennifer Jayanthi Kumar - Bio, Memior and Credentials

Fri, 21 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Moving to and living in India, defining my life till today.

Replicating India in America.... an exciting journey everyday!

Click in to learn a little more about my journey to you here on Alaivani!

Thiruvathira - Folk Dance Performed During Onam in Kerala India

Wed, 19 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

There are a multitude of folk dances in India. In Kerala, one such folk dance generally perfomed in by women is Thiruvathira. I like to call this dance a 'South Indian Square Dance.'

In this post, I share a few YouTube videos of dances I like, and links to videos of the dance as performed by our local Malayalee association (of which I also was part of).

Thank you, and enjoy!

India - America Interfaith and Public Holidays for September 2009

Wed, 19 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

September 2009 is overflowing with celebrations in America and India in various tradtions: Hindu (Onam, Navarathri), Muslim (Eid), and Jewish (Yom Kippur and Rosh Hashanah).

Hindu Holidays in 2010

Mon, 17 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

I have noticed a number of people coming to my site looking for Hindu Holiday dates in 2010. Here are a list of select Hindu holidays in 2010.

Alaivani Newsletter August 2009

Fri, 14 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

India, China, America- cross cultural lifestyles and cultural celebrations across the seas- a theme heard loud and clear in the last month on Alaivani from over 10 contributors!

I really appreciate each and every person who supports this blog! Thank you!

Blending of Cultures and Lifestyles Photo Exhibition

Wed, 12 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Creative lifestyles in China, India, and America are highlighted through a wide range of photo submissions this month.

*An Indian living in China
* Indian in America and in India celebrating the Goddess
* An American living her dreams in Nepal

Enjoy!!

Blog Bling August 2009

Fri, 07 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

This month bloggers have helped me explore a full range of emotion! Caroline, pictured, right bought me to tears of joy, through her dreams realized (photograph used with permission, do not reprint), while Brijesh, Mohan, Kochuthresiamma, Jonathan and Leo have inspired nostalgia in me.

Read these and thoughts of Cath Duncan (who incidentally shared some breathtaking Utah photos on Facebook), Diana Long, Pradeep Nair, Abhilash, Abhi, Mohan and international journalists who have inspired me to share their nuggets of wisdom with you this month!

Thank you to all writers in the blogosphere for sharing your wisdom.&l

Recipe Review August 2009

Thu, 06 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

I am offering this special post as an introduction to the fine art of Indian cookery. Each month on my recipe blog, I will feature a listing of recipes I have favorited on cookery blogs that I follow. I will attempt to also provide introductions to these recipes to Americans, like myself and newbies to Indain cooking as tutorials of sorts. Thank you food bloggers for sharing your creativity and epicurian tastes with us!

Photo right "Pittu Swan" by Nithya at 4th Sense Samayal. Do not reprint this photo, reprinted with permission.&

Visit Niagara, Ithaca's Gorge's, Amish Fields and Rochester, NY through the Eyes of Krishna Kumar

Wed, 05 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Enjoying the scenery of home and upstate New York's summer spendlor is the theme of these batch of photo, highlighting various towns and settings as seen through the lens of my husband, Krishna! Enjoy.

An Indian in China: Interview with Kochi-ite Sneha Krishnan

Mon, 03 Aug 2009 05:00:00 GMT

To Sneha, her life is quite normal. But, to me, looking in and seeing an Indian studying in China, it’s new to me! Though it’s not new for Indians to study in China, it’s a new piece of information for me. Today, I share an exciting interview with Sneha, a Keralite living in China.

Photo Courtesy Jessie Lein. / CC BY-NC 2.0

Tutorial: Tips and Etiquette for Attending Varalakshmi Puja at Home or in Temple

Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Are you invited for the first time to attend a Hindu puja at someone's home or temple? This post attempts to share some tips you can follow to help you feel more comfortable in your new surroundings, among new friends and in the community.

Would like to know what you think. Please share your thoughts and experiences after reading!

Please accept Raji's thamboolam (favors) for attending the Varalakshmi puja.

Thank you!

Varalakshmi Vratham Prayer Celebrations Video, Tutorial and Tips

Wed, 29 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Attending celebrations is exciting. But what if it's a new festival for you and you have never attended Varalakshmi Vratham at someone's home or a temple?

In this series of two posts, I attempt to introduce you to this festival from a practical perspective so a newbie can have some idea what to expect of the flow of celebration, what to wear, bring and and how to interact with the others in attendance.

A to Z of Graduate Study in US

Mon, 27 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Guest Post By Brijesh Nair.

Are you an readying to come to study in America this year? This post by Brijesh, an Indian International student in America, is a quick A to Z tutorial on adjusting to life in America as a college student!

Do go through Brijesh's thoughts and share your ideas and thoughts on his blog.

Thank you!

Book Review: Accent of Success: A Practical Guide for International Students

Mon, 27 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Want practical advice for adjusting to life in America? This is it!

This book is intended for international students, but I think parts of it can be helpful for all categories of college students and immigrants to America. This book shares tips on how to adjust to everyday life in America: how to get a car, how to do daily tasks, how to interact with people, how to navigate cultural and social situations.

India - America Interfaith and Public Holidays for August 2009

Wed, 22 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Wondering when certian secular and spiritual holidays of Indians, Americans, Hindus, Buddhist, Jews, Christians, Muslims are in August 2009?

Holidays in August 2009 include: Avani Avittam (changing of sacred thread), Rakhi, Krishna Jayanthi, India's Independance Day, Parsi New Year, Ramadan, Onam and Ganesh Chathurthi.

International Students Orientation to American College Life and Etiquette

Mon, 20 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Students from all corners of the globe are readying to arrive in America for the start of their academic and professional careers. Many bring with them material possessions to ease the transition. I help you by sharing with you ideas on how to better adjust to life here in America. Ideas are weightless, so you don't need to worry about your luggage overages or leaving them behind!

In this post, I introduce you to my series of videos on my YouTube channel on orientation to life on American college campuses. Feel free to leave your thoughts behind so I can improve the information I can provide to you!!!

I hope this will be useful to you! Thank you for spending time on my website.

Aadi Masam 2009 – Aadi Month in 2009 in Tamil Calendar

Fri, 17 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

A busy month for many women in south India, the fourth month of the Tamil Calendar, known as Adi is jam-packed of auspicious prayer activites to the Goddess. It is also during Adi Masam that the yearly Varalakshmi Puja happens.

This post details the spiritual calendar for the month of Aadi in 2009, plus some related cultural facts.

Photo, left. "Lakshmi by Dad", Maitri Erwin.

Rochester Perspectives

Wed, 15 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Visit Rochester and experience a little of it's history and cultural diversity without moving from your seat! In this post, I will share a few creative travelogues and skits from YouTube made about Rochester, NY.

Enjoy!

Alaivani Newsletter July 2009

Fri, 10 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Reflecting on everyday aspects of life in India and America to help ease transitions between life in America and India has been on my mind in the last one month.

Challenging your own life's borders by living away from 'home', creating a new home, and flawlessly moving between cultures, cities, countries and 'homes' intrigues me. This topic has inspired me to write on topics of cross-cultural significance: homesickness, childraising and independance, gift giving, socializing, kitchen etiquette, and related topics.

Cultural Melting Pot: Rochester, New York

Wed, 08 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Asians and Indians are only a few of the cultures and ethnicities that live in Rochester, New York. I am collecting photos together from flickr into different groups to highlight the amazing diversity had in the city so we can learn from each other both our unique qualities and our common interests. Click into the post for more groupings and to add your own photos! Thank you!

Click inside to see the slideshows and participate in this exciting project!

See an ever-growing list of Rochester Ethnic and Cultural Resources - click here.

Kerala Calendar Tutorial

Mon, 06 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Many Malayalee families continue to consult the family priest or astrologer to calculate special days. Many holy-days are now transcribed into a Western calendar format for easier reference, though these dates change yearly in the Western calendar. Many who want to follow the Malayalee calendar more closely for the appearance of certian stars (nakshatras) would be curious on the basics on how to read a Kerala calendar.

Others may be intrigued to follow the Malayalam calender to celebrate not one, but two birthdays a year! Click inside to find out more!

Blog Bling July 2009

Fri, 03 Jul 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Click inside to peruse and participate in some of the interesting thoughts of Africa Expat Wives Club (A UK family settled in Kenya), Shaiju Joseph, Binny VA, Flower Girl, Aarathi, Meeru, Green Family, and others! What a great diversity of points of view!

The Kitchen Connection: Bonding with Indian Culture and People through Food

Fri, 26 Jun 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Entering the kitchen to help a hostess was not part of my social ettiquette. Entering another's kitchen without being asked and doing 'work' would be intruding on her independance and ability to accomplish the task at hand. That is why I did not enter the kitchen in India, when I lived there, and even why it's taken me time to adjust into the Indian community lifestyle here and enter other's kitchens not only to talk, but to help!

How have I evolved this habit? What has encouraged me to question my culture and update it to something different? How has that enriched my life and helped me integrate with the Indian community? Read inside....

India - America Interfaith and Public Holidays for July 2009

Wed, 24 Jun 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Is Homesickness a Good Thing?

Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:00:00 GMT

What does homesickness mean to you?

In your culture and in your upbringing, what did it mean to you and others to be homesick? What were circumstances that created homesickness in you?

As you have gotten older has the idea of homesickness or the feelings of homesickness changed?

In this post, I share some cultural insights on homesickness, spending time away from home at different times in my life, and how my life experiences after having lived in India has changed my views on homesickness and notions of childhood independance.

The Dance of Overwhelming Joy

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 05:00:00 GMT

For them, possibly an average day. For me, the culmination of aspirations, dreams and fantasies, in other words, an experience of pure joy!

Watching these small children connect with their cultural heritage was an experience of overwhelming joy for me. It was more than watching the dance that stirred emotion in me, but the dance was the catalyst. Are you curious why? Read more, and watch the video of the cute kids performing the dance that inspired me to write this post...

Palm Sunday

Mon, 15 Jun 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Binu shares his thoughts and experiences about Palm Sunday, the day that Jesus rode into Jerusalem on a goat, heralded in by the local villagers with the fanning of palm leaves, days before Easter.

The interview also provides links to games, crafts and songs for children, videos about Palm Sunday and links to bible scriptures that can be read on this holy day.

Photo: Fred Dawson at Flickr (used under creative commons&

Alaivani Newsletter June 2009

Fri, 12 Jun 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Globetrotting to India and across New York in present time and in sweet memories is the theme of this month's newsletter.

This month, we visited unique and beautiful places in New York (Highland Park, Lilac Festival), Lockport Caves, Olcott Beach on Lake Ontario, Sonnenberg Gardens in Canandaigua and have come half way round the globe to be with family and friends in Kochi, Trivandrum, Chennai and Kanchipuram (South India). These stories, still and moving images span the last three years. Enjoy!

Traversing Trivandrum in 2006

Wed, 10 Jun 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Waking to Suprabatham in the distance awakens you to the fact, yes, you are in India! Even more so in South India! Here, we experienced the wonder of international television entertainment, a trip to a cliff side resort beach, traversing on film star's teritory in the film park, shopping for saris (while enjoying filter coffee and vadas....), and a heart pumping session of driving in India!

How in the world did we fit rest and relaxation into the principals residential resort into all this??

Blog Bling June 2009

Fri, 05 Jun 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Inspiration is everywhere, it's outside and within you! That would have to be the overarching theme of the posts from this month!

Click into read some of the interesting thoughts of Jonathan Mead, BV Raman, Kaushik Chakraborty, Grace Kerina, Nitya Shanti, Danielle LaPorte, Cherian Mathew, Joann, Shaiju Joseph, Mani Karthik, Jana, Amit Agarwal, and Sharon Wilson. What a great diversity of points of view!

Kerala Landing 2006

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Stepping foot into India as a married woman with my husband, staying with his family for a few weeks was an exciting and memorable trip. In this two part travel diary, I share a few days excerpt of my experiences of travelling to and enjoying the new sights and sounds of Kerala, India.

In part one, I share our transit experience. What is it like to experience an Indian airport? What is it like to be greeted by the Indian climate, culture and people? I share a few thoughts from my experience.

Photo slideshow at end of post.

Thank you for reading.

The Puranas

Mon, 01 Jun 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Short introduction to the holy Puranas. The Puranas (of ancient times) are narratives of the history of the Universe. They are perhaps the most important or commonly used scriptural texts of the Hindus and are even today used as guide books for the whole of life and society.

Padmini shares answers to frequently asked questions about the Puranas, short summaries of a the Puranas in this post. Enjoy!

Photologue: Famous Sun Temple in Orissa India

Fri, 29 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

The Sun Temple is an archetectural marvel in the eastern coastal state of Orissa, in India. Ajoy, a contributing author to Alaivani visited this holy and historical site last year. He has sent the photos comprising this photo diary.

Thank you for your continued support and submissions to enrich the quality of Alaivani, Ajoy.

India - America Interfaith and Public Holidays for June 2009

Wed, 27 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Elephants of all Ages in Kerala India

Mon, 25 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Elephants of all Ages in Kerala India

comments welcome

These series of videos of baby elephants and adult elephants showcasing their talents for humans were taken on our trip to Kerala, India in 2008. Enjoy!

Photo, right: I am standing with a cute baby elephant at Kodanad, Kerala.

Econocation – Highland Park Rochester, New York

Fri, 22 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Looking for an economical vacation, usually a place that can be covered in one day (a daycation) and may even be a local retreat (staycation) for some. Some of these rendezvous may also be classified as ‘freecations’ because depending on where you live maybe no fees are required to attend at all!

Rustic Rendezvous in East Africa

Wed, 20 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Our dream vacation awaits in Kenya and Tanzania. We wait to experience wildlife and safari in the country that still seems so exotic. In 2007, I came across the following videos by Daniel Sumarto I want to share with you today. These are three of his six videos.

These videos are inspiring. The photography is simply breathtaking and leaves an emotional imprint within me. All videos are embedded with permission from videographer, Daniel Sumarto.

From Darkness to Light

Mon, 18 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Padmini shares with us a timeless spiritual parable and life lesson that all can relate to. Read, enjoy and be enlightened!

Alaivani Newsletter May 2009

Sat, 09 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

As spring blooms with excitement all over Rochester, New York, so does many projects and creative endeavors through Alaivani! Open up to find out more!

I appreciate you spending your time on Alaivani!

India America Cross Cultural Integration - My thoughts on YouTube Videos!

Fri, 08 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

A few months back I recorded myself on YouTube talking about my thoughts and experiences integrating the cultures of India and America in my life here in America. The three videos total about 15 minutes. Listen at your leisure!

I would really be happy to hear your feedback on the videos. Log into this blog to leave your feedback or I have provided links under each video to the YouTube sites where you can leave your comments as well!!

I appreciate you spending your time and sharing your opinions with me!!

Alaivani Handmade Soaps Video Ad!!

Wed, 06 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Ramayana

Mon, 04 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Ramanavami is the celebration of the birth of Lord Rama, the epitome of a virtuious man on earth. The festival of Rama's birth is celebrated on the day of the star Punar Poosam in the bright fortnight of the month of Chithirai or Panguni (March-April-May). Poosam is Lord Rama’s star. On this day the holy epic Ramayana is read and Rama’s virtues are extolled.

In some parts of India, Lord Rama's birthday also coincides with the last day of the spring Navarathri or Vasanta Navarathri more commonly celebrated in North India. In 2009, Vasantha Navarathri and Lord Rama's birthday, or Ramanavami have already passed.

In this article, contributing author, Padmini shares the story of Lord Rama and some common ways of celebrating Ramanavami in Tamil Nadu, South India

Blog Bling April 2009

Fri, 01 May 2009 05:00:00 GMT

South Indian recipes and culture, spiritual and personal growth, tech advice, and writing tips from bloggers all over the world!

Thank you for sharing your wisdom, experiences and creativity with the world!

India - America Interfaith and Public Holidays for May 2009

Wed, 29 Apr 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Bridging secular and spiritual calendars of two countries:India and America, click inside to see what holidays or holy-days are awaiting us in May 2009!

Images of Alaivani

Wed, 22 Apr 2009 05:00:00 GMT

I maintain a flickr photo blog. Some of the photos from that blog are displayed here in Alaivani blog as well.

I am moved to share the top 20 photos from my photo blog at flickr here.

Photo to right, photo by Ajoy, one of the most popular photos on my blog! Thank you, Ajoy.

Alaivani

Mon, 20 Apr 2009 05:00:00 GMT

The poetry of the mingling of the words 'alai' or waves and 'vani' or sound into Alaivani, has inspired Padmini to share her very own soundwaves about Alaivani in this beautifully expressed poem!

Thank you, Padmini.

Varusha Pirappu - Tamizh New Year’s Day

Tue, 14 Apr 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Today marks the new year in the South Indian calendars for Tamils and Keralites. Happy New Year!!

This article discusses Tamil New Year. Submitted by Padmini Natarajan.

To the left, close and cover your eyes, then surprise! It's the good luck as seen in Vishukkani as ritualistically celebrated in Kerala!

Honeymoon with Husband and his Family: Experiences in the Life of an Extended Family

Mon, 13 Apr 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Have you ever watched a feel good Hindi movie? Many of them have a marriage, not only of the bride and groom, but the family. Often when Indian immigrants marry in America, whether it's to other Indians or to non-Indians, the extended family comes over to stay, not only to attend the wedding, but may become part of the honeymoon too! Read our experiences...

Alaivani Newsletter April 2009

Fri, 10 Apr 2009 05:00:00 GMT

This month, join Viji, Padmini, Maddy, Raman and many others in the Alaivani community for some nice hot chenna masala and rotis while taking a peek at what's been going on in the world of Alaivani for the last one month!! Enjoy the company, enjoy the food!! Enjoy life!

Padmini Natarajan

Wed, 08 Apr 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Padmini Natarajan is a new

It is hard to believe but in all the books I read to prepare myself for my life as a student in India, it was a book about life in Africa that helped me decide what I really wanted to get out of my experience in India! After reading this book, I began to ask myself questions about what I was really looking for in my own experience in going to India. What did I want to learn? What did I want to bring back with me to America? How did I want this move to influence me for my whole life....

Image right: Map of African continent, by Edu-Tourist@flickr. Click on photo to see more of Edu-Tourist's photos.

We’re From India: Book Review

Fri, 03 Apr 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Before I went to India, I read hundreds of books on a variety of topics and even studied some languages. I learned about a lot of things, most specifically the differences between America and India. It was fun and exciting to learn about how people express life differently than me, and of course that was one reason I wanted to experience India for myself.

Daily Life at the Army School in Kerala, India

Wed, 01 Apr 2009 05:00:00 GMT

My brother in law is the principal of the Sainik School (Army school) in Kazhakootam, near to Thiruvananthapuram (Trivandrum) in the state of Kerala in India. When we go home to visit family, we have spent many a day enjoying the sights and sounds of the grounds. Click in to see some photos and videos of the Sainik School taken in recent trips.

Integrating Two Worlds: Life in America with an Indian Twist

Mon, 30 Mar 2009 05:00:00 GMT

It was cold in the middle of summer, food was too bland, too many choices in the grocery store, the dress code was different, calling elders by their first names was preferred over ‘Sir’ and ‘Ma’am,’ and on top of all that I almost got myself killed by driving on the left hand side of the road!

These are just a few challenges I had in readujsting to life in U.S. after living in Chennai, India as a graduate student for two years.

Insights and Inspirations of Viji Varadarajan

Fri, 27 Mar 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Viji Varadarajan is an ambassador of the Tamil Brahmin cookery culture. Her passion for her culture has taken her on amazing journeys within her kitchen and outside her home as well, interacting with and educating Indians and Internationals on the beauties and wonders of this cuisine and culture. As more and more curious people from all over the world are exposed to Viji’s books and friendly personality, her awareness of what to do and where to go next in bringing awareness to us on Tamil Brahmin (tambram) cooking comes from questions and observations from anyone who’s curious.

Alaivani Newsletter March 2009

Fri, 13 Mar 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Creating India inspired artwork at home integrates Indian culture into American life.

In the last month, I have created some youtube videos sharing on topics of cultural integration and authenticity. There are these videos plus much more in this month's Alaivani newsletter, open and explore!!

Photo by Krishna Kumar, used with permission.

Reflections on Native American Culture

Mon, 09 Mar 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Earlier this year, we went to an Iroquois Festival in eastern New York state. Here we experienced some Native American storytelling and dances. I have shot a short video that you can view once you click into this post. More interesting than the video is the comments by the viewers of the video. I am learning so much about the Native American culture from having had posted this video and interacting with the commenters. Thank you to everyone who wants to enlighten us on the cultures of the Native Americans.

Website Wednesdays: Vidhya's Recipe Blog

Wed, 18 Feb 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Following Vidhya's recipe blog for almost a year has bought some unique culinary delights into our kitchen. I love to read about the Tamil cooking, cultural aspects and health tips as presented in her blog. Of course, to top that, I just love to eat Tamil vegetarian cuisine and reading the blog tempts me to create her recipes on my own! Click in to read more about Vidhya and her Indian Tamil Vegetarian Cooking blog!

Thank you, Vidhya.

Alaivani Newsletter February 2009

Fri, 13 Feb 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Deeper meaning of Pongal, Ganesh and Thaipusam were few of the thoughts on my mind this month along with other activities of daily life. Hope the inspiration of reflection is helping you to achive all your dreams in 2009! Click into read and explore more!

Thaipusam in Singapore

Sun, 08 Feb 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Thaipusam is a south Indian festival celebrated to attone from sins of the previous years through rituals and self-sacrifice. Arun shares with us his celebrations of this holiday in Singapore.

Thaipusam: Ode to Lord Murugan

Sun, 08 Feb 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Happy Thaipusam. It is today that people will undertake rituals to rid of sins, burdens and hurts inflicted on others during the past year.

Read about Thaipusam

Part 1: Exploring Reasons and Meanings behind the rituals of Thaipusam

Part 2- Stories and Legends of Thaipusam.

What Can we Learn from the Story of Ganesha?

Wed, 04 Feb 2009 05:00:00 GMT

The story of how Ganesh came to have an elephant’s head can teach us how patience, tolerance, clear communication, understanding and other virtues can help us better prepare ourselves for change and crisis. Read more...

Story of Lord Ganesha (aka How did Ganesh Get the Head of an Elephant?)

Wed, 28 Jan 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Who is Lord Ganesha? He is the most adored and loved god. Son of Siva and Parvathy, and brother to Murugan, Lord Ganesha is worshipped before all endeavors. He removes all obstacles. But many wonder, why does he have an elephant's head?

In part one of three, I will share a mythological story detailing how Ganesha got the head of an elephant.

Keep tuned in for parts two and three- meaning of this story and questions about Ganesha. Thank you for visiting.

Country Insights India: City and Village Life

Mon, 26 Jan 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Want to know how the average person in India lives? What is it like to live in village India? How does living in the village or in the city create a unique way of life? David Cumming attempts to answer in his forty-eight page book, Country Insights India: City and Village Life, while providing an overview of India

Teens in India: Book Review

Wed, 21 Jan 2009 05:00:00 GMT

Looking for a book that covers many aspects of life in India from a non-judgmental view point, free of the typical stereotypes of most books about India?

Full of interesting, insightful and colorful pictures, the book will draw all ages in for a quick, educational and inspiring read.

This review is the first in the India in Your Living Room series.